If you don’t fight for ALL women, you fight for NO women

If you don’t fight for ALL women, you fight for NO women

It’s International Women’s Day and social media is alight with empowering memes! However just like with the Women’s March there seemed to be a lack of diversity in the cause to include disabled women. Kinda ironic given disabled females are amongst the most vulnerable group in society, and even more so; disabled, poor, brown women. āœ‹šŸ½ Continue reading “If you don’t fight for ALL women, you fight for NO women”

Oops I did it again

Oops I did it again

Crap. It happened again. In contrast to the ‘fake news’ I published earlier on Facebook showing photos of delicious food depicting a fab night out – the truth is quite a different story.

I booked a surprise birthday dinner for my boyfriend at Vanilla Black restaurant. Something a little bit fancier than our local (but equally fabulous) Turkish restaurant.Ā  Continue reading “Oops I did it again”

Mexico on steroids

Mexico on steroids

Our Christmas trip to Mexico was planned way back in the summer but by the time it came around I was dreading it. And not because Trump says it’s full of murderers and rapists. šŸ™„

Since I fell unconscious at my birthday dinner in September, I developed a blood infection which for anyone with RA means more than just a few days of antibiotics – more like 2 months of antibiotics. Continue reading “Mexico on steroids”

Chronic Time Travelling

Chronic Time Travelling

Today I made it out of the house for the first time in 5 days. I was supposed to attend my partner’s family reunion weekender but it was not possible as all of my autoimmune illnesses are at war with each other. Due to this I have also been off my chemo and biological injections for two months and as a result I am exhausted and struggling in physical and mental pain.

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I, Daniel Blake meets haters Camilla Long & Toby Young

I, Daniel Blake meets haters Camilla Long & Toby Young

This post has been republished for the UK General Election 2017 here

I, Daniel Blake hit closer to home than any other film in my lifetime. However, reviews by Camilla Long, Sunday Times film critic and Toby Young, Daily Mail,Ā mockĀ the disabled and vulnerable peopleĀ caught in the catch-22Ā welfare system in this powerful and beautifully honest film. To me that ringsĀ alarm bells aboutĀ the UK psyche. Continue reading “I, Daniel Blake meets haters Camilla Long & Toby Young”

TFL ‘Please Offer me a Seat’ Trial

TFL ‘Please Offer me a Seat’ Trial

Last month I was selected to take part in the Transport for London Please Offer Me a SeatĀ trial which is the first of its kind on TFL to alert passengers to those needing a seat. Badges and cards were given to qualifying people with disabilities and/ or ‘hidden illnesses’ i.e. that were not ‘visible’.

Personally I hate the term ‘hidden illness’ as I’m not hiding anything. It’s suggests something other than ‘proper illness’. It is a term that has been coined to basically describe ‘biology’ to the ignorant. But we shall have to continue to use it until we have equity. Continue reading “TFL ‘Please Offer me a Seat’ Trial”

My birthday trip to A&E

My birthday trip to A&E

I often get told I ‘look so well’. This is a story about how a birthday dinnerĀ can quickly turn into a trip to A&E when you have an autoimmune condition (or in my case several).

I don’t always organise something for my birthday but this year I thought I would. I have to admit though, by the time the date came around, I wasn’t in the most sociable of moods as another autoimmune condition of mine Continue reading “My birthday trip to A&E”